How to Use a Vibrator: Tips From Sex and Wellness Experts
VUSH Gloss Bullet Vibrator is a pocket rocket that will help you see stars. It’s a fun sized bullet vibrator that proves size doesn’t always matter, with 10 vibration settings, precision point vibes to give total control, and designed with medical grade silicone. If you’d like to experiment with some kinky BDSM play, Dr. O’Reilly recommends taking turns controlling the remote. “You’ll both get the chance to tease and enjoy the thrill of anticipation,” she says.
Some vibrators can be really expensive based on the features they offer. For example, long-distance devices and suction toys can cost a couple hundred dollars. While a high-quality, body-safe vibrator shouldn’t be cheap, you also want to make sure you’re getting your money’s worth. Make sure to read the specs so you know you’re making a financially wise decision. If a vibrator only has a battery life of one hour, but it’s going to set you back $200, keep looking. This one attaches to underwear with a handy magnetic clip that keeps the toy anchored where you want it; it’s easily the most secure and reliable of any panty vibe I’ve tested.
“Silicone or glass dildos are the best quality,” says Khalili, and this set doubles down on the latter option. One is pink and one is clear; the pink dildo is curved, with nodules along the shaft and bulbed tips at either end. If you and your partner are interested in exploring BDSM but are not into the black-leather vibe, this kit, with pre-tied knots made of natural fiber, is a good place to start.
As if the Satisfyer Pro 2 Clitoral Stimulator wasn’t iconic enough, it’s also a waterproof toy. In case you’re not familiar, this game-changer mimics oral sex with the help of its 11 air-based pulsation modes. If you’re taking this toy from the tub to the bedroom, make sure you pair it with water-based lube to keep the climactic fun going. Below, take a gander at some of the buzziest waterproof sex toys that’ll make bathtime steamier than ever before. There are 12 different vibration patterns available, each one delivering pleasant sensations in its own way. When penetration isn’t possible due to medical reasons, sex toys are a great way of maintaining a level of sexual intimacy with each other.
If you’re looking for a vibrating butt plug, we’re going to assume that this isn’t your first foray into the world of anal toys. If it is, welcome, it’s great to have you here — might we recommend starting off with a non-vibrating option like Unbound’s Nudge or something a bit smaller. Customers find the massager provides a relaxing experience, with one customer describing it as a personalized stress reliever that offers a wide range of sensations. If you have noise constraints to contend with—like a roommate with hypersensitive ears or in-laws occasionally staying in your guest room—you may prefer a quiet vibe.
With the speed and vibration options across the two motors, SnailVibe has 600 possible combinations, according to its site. The Strawberry was unimpressive—the actual shape of it made it lackluster to use, and it’s not something I would purchase again, especially with the $79 price tag. Ultimately, I would say yes to the Cherry, and no to the Strawberry, if I was looking to snag something from Emojibator’s toy lineup. If you’re determined to use the Cherry in the bath, the rating and several user reviews on Emojibator’s site indicate that you should have a nice time—my testing was skewed due to my initial struggle to find the charging port. As the name implies, Emojibators are vibrators that look just like Emojis. The product selection is quite small and the bestsellers frequently sell out, so if any grab your eye, grab them quickly.
As a grown adult, hopefully viberator, you’ve found a few favorite standbys for your personal pleasure chest. (If not, allow us to recommend some favorites.) But if you typically only use your sex toys to go alone, it’s time to expand your horizon and consider some new possibilities. As it turns out, sex toys aren’t just for solo play — they can also make partnered adventures even more enthralling. Yes, you can grab your fave vibe and bring it to the coupled mix, but there’s a whole market full of toys designed to give both you and your boo pleasure, no jealousy required. Like most sex toys , you can use many of these sensual gadgets on a variety of erogenous zones. Dr. O’Reilly explains that even if the vibrator is designed for a specific part of your pleasure system, you don’t need to limit its focus to just one area.
In addition, the Lovense Remote app allows for customization of the vibration intensity and patterns to indulge yourself to your heart’s content. It has a wireless range of up to 30 feet, so you can play with your partner even when you’re not in the same room. Plus, it’s 100% waterproof, so you can take it into the shower or tub for some wet and wild fun.
Our panel loved the smooth silicone finish of this bullet vibrator, while the harder plastic handle helped them keep a good grip during use. Testers said the tapered tip made it easier to target key pleasure points, and they liked playing with the (many) vibration patterns. Our testers praised the wide variety of settings to choose from, including nine vibrating functions and 10 suction settings. The also loved the super sleek, sculpted design and soft feel of the silicone against their skin.
If you’re intrigued by the idea of suction vibrators but don’t want to go over budget, there’s the Satisfyer Pro 2. Indigo Stray Conger, LMFT, a certified sex therapist, previously recommended this popular model to SELF for its lower price, waterproof design, and intense settings. The long handle and larger buttons make it easy to use, especially for beginners.